Tuesday Tips for Caregivers ~ Seeking and Accepting Support

Tuesday Tips for Caregivers ~ Seeking and Accepting Support

Many caregivers find it difficult to ask for help and initially refuse help from friends and neighbors.  If you are a caregiver who tries to do everything yourself, you may find that your expectations are overwhelming and unrealistic.

If you are a caregiver for a loved one, you are among 52 million other Americans who are challenged to strike a balance between the needs of the care recipient, yourself and other family members. The responsibilities may seem overwhelming at times; however, most caregivers report the rewards far outweigh the burdens.

The key to achieving a manageable situation is taking care of yourself first.

As every pre-flight safety demonstration shows us, secure your own oxygen mask before assisting others. This is easy advice to share but near-impossible advice for most caregivers to follow. A few principles may help:

  1. Remember at all times: You should not attempt to do it alone. Seek and accept help from family and friends. Caregivers often resist accepting offers of support to avoid feelings of guilt and incompetency. If you are a friend or family member, be persuasive.
  2. Honor yourself. You are doing a hard job and you deserve some quality time just for you. Don’t let your loved one’s disability always take center stage.
  3. Be open to technologies and ideas. Keep yourself well informed by continually seeking new information.
  4. Grieve your losses and allow yourself to dream new dreams.
  5. Join a support group.

Many people in a caregiver’s life can be part of the team: family members near and far, friends, faith community members, volunteers and community service providers.

source: davisenterprises.com